Proportion

”Sense of humor is ultimately just an acute sense of proportion… the funny person notices stuff first. You walk in a room, the funny person will know, ‘Hey, it’s cold in here.’ Or, ‘What’s that smell?’ You pull a car in front of me, a brand-new car from the showroom, and if it has a little scratch on it… my eye will go right to the scratch, ‘Hey, you got a little scratch here.’”

Eddie Murphy, Being Eddie, 44:45 or so. (Netflix)

I would add context. The more and broader stuff you know, the more cars from the showroom run in front of you.

Lippmann and How Close

“It is often very illuminating, therefore, to ask yourself how you got at the facts on which you base your opinion. Who actually saw, heard, felt, counted, named the thing, about which you have an opinion? Was it the man who told you, or the man who told him, or someone still further removed? And how much was he permitted to see?”

“When he informs you that France thinks this and that, what part of France did he watch? How was he able to watch it? Where was he when he watched it? What Frenchmen was he permitted to talk to, what newspapers did he read, and where did they learn what they say?”

Public Opinion, chapter 2
Walter Lippmann

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One may obviously substitute Ukraine, Russia, Gaza, and Israel here.

Boredom

I remembered Roger Ebert saying this about The Age of Innocence. I was right about the topic; wrong about where. It’s in his review of The Remains of the Day.

“I got some letters from readers who complained (Innocence) was boring, that “nothing happens in it.” To which I was tempted to reply: If you had understood what happened in it, it would not have been boring.

No stain of cruelty…

“As a man, his character cannot be spoken of too highly; no stain of cruelty or faithlessness rests on him.”

That’s an old fashioned, but quite wonderful, assessment of a life. It comes from the 11th Edition Britannica, discussing Étienne Macdonald, one of Napoleon’s marshals.

(To explain his surprising last name: His father was a Jacobite exile, who was of Bonnie Prince Charlie’s retinue. The elder Macdonald married well, giving his son the background to have a chance to advance in the Army.)